Many new managers discover quickly that promotion brings both opportunity and overwhelm. What once looked straightforward suddenly feels like constant pressure — expectations, decisions, and responsibilities all seem to multiply overnight.
One of the biggest challenges is learning to delegate effectively. Technical excellence may have earned someone their new role, but management requires a different toolkit — one that focuses on enabling others to perform.
Delegation sits at the heart of that toolkit. When it’s missing, managers become the bottleneck — still doing their old job, while managing people, attending meetings, and firefighting issues. The result? Long hours, dependency from the team, and frustration all round.
When managers learn to delegate well, everything shifts. They regain time to focus on priorities, their teams develop new skills, and performance becomes more sustainable.
Why it Matters
Effective delegation isn’t about handing off work — it’s about developing others and creating a more resilient, self-sufficient team.
It solves three problems at once:
- It gives managers back time to focus on actual management work instead of drowning in tasks
- It develops the team’s skills so they become more capable and autonomous
- It makes a team more resilient because knowledge and responsibility are shared
By delegating well, managers teach their teams to grow, solve problems independently and add value to the whole organisation. It leaves the manager more able to focus on what they should be doing – ie getting the best out of their team, hitting goals, delivering results and even having space to think, develop and innovate.
And importantly, the organisation benefits from stronger succession planning, better collaboration, and reduced stress and burnout at every level
So, what stops us?
It’s hard because when we delegate, we have to let go and trust. Using a framework, such as our DREAM™ model below, can help it feel less intimidating.
The DREAM™ Delegation Model
The DREAM™ model is a practical five-step approach that helps managers build confidence and capability — for themselves and their teams.
- D – Designate: Select the right person for the task, based on capability, development opportunity, and capacity.
- R – Request: Give a clear brief. Define what success looks like using SMART principles.
- E – Equip: Ensure they have the tools, information, access, and authority they need to succeed.
- A – Allow: Give appropriate autonomy while maintaining visibility through planned check-ins.
- M – Motivate: Acknowledge effort and outcomes so people are encouraged to take ownership again next time.
The DREAM™ Model in Action
Step 1: Designating – this is all about picking the right person for the task, based on assessment not just convenience.
Asking 3 simple questions can help:
- Can they do this? Do they have the skills and experience needed? If not, can they learn quickly enough, or does it need someone more experienced?
- Should they do this? Does this task help them develop skills they need? Or is it just busywork that’ll frustrate them?
- Do they have capacity? Are they already swamped, or do they have room to take this on?
Quick tip: Keep a simple mental map of your team: who’s strong at what, who’s learning what, and who’s got bandwidth. Use it to help you plan your delegation.
Step 2: Requesting – this stage focuses on the clarity of the delegated task, explaining the task so clearly that the team member can succeed without needing to read your mind.
Using the SMART framework makes it easier:
- Specific: What exactly needs to be done? Not “improve the report” but “add a section on regional sales trends”
- Measurable: How will we know it’s done well? What does success look like?
- Achievable: Is this realistic with the time and resources available?
- Relevant: Why does this matter? How does it fit into the bigger picture?
- Time-bound: When do you need it by? Are there any interim milestones?
Relevance is often missed in delegation – helping the team member understand how their work will be used and its importance can make a huge difference to the end product – and also the number of questions a manager gets along the way!
Quick tip: A common mistake is assuming that people know what their manager means. Often they don’t. After explaining the task, ask them to summarise back what they’ve understood. This can catch misunderstandings really quickly and allow a redirect right from the start.
Step 3: Equipping – here we focus on making sure the team member has everything they need to succeed.
Don’t just hand over the task—hand over the tools, information, and access they need to complete it. And also the authority. Make sure the rest of the team know they’re in charge of it now. Use this checklist to make sure you’ve covered all the bases:
- Information: Context, background, previous examples, relevant data
- Access: System logins, file permissions, contact details for people who can help
- Resources: Budget, tools, templates, guidelines
- Training: If they haven’t done this before, show them how or point them to someone who can
Quick tip: Ask yourself: “If I were doing this task for the first time, what would I need?” Then provide exactly that.
For example,
“Can you write the monthly newsletter? Here’s last month’s version for the format, here’s the shared drive where we keep content ideas, and here’s access to the email system. Once you’ve drafted it, send it to me for review by Thursday so we can finalize it for Friday. Any questions before you start?”
Step 4: Allowing – in other words, giving the space to do it themselves without micromanaging whilst also being connected enough to help if things go wrong.
This is often the hardest part – we want to make sure it’s done right, but we don’t want to micromanage. So what’s the balance?
Set up a simple monitoring system:
- Define decision-making boundaries: What can they decide on their own? What needs your input? What requires your approval?
- Schedule check-ins: Don’t wait for them to come to you. Set specific times to review progress: “Let’s touch base on Wednesday to see how it’s going.”
- Clarify escalation criteria: Tell them exactly when to come to you: “If the cost goes over £500, check with me. If a customer escalates beyond one follow-up, bring me in.”
- Use the right level of oversight: Not everything needs the same level of supervision. Using too much oversight is exhausting for everyone and using too light sets people up to fail. Make an explicit decision about which level you feel is right based on their experience and the sensitivity or complexity of the task.
Choose between:
- Just keep me informed (for experienced team members on routine tasks)
- Check before you act (for new-to-them tasks or medium stakes situations)
- Let’s decide together (for higher stakes tasks or development delegations/ learning opportunities)
- I’ll guide you (for first time delegates or critical unknown tasks)
Quick tip: Tell them the level you’re using: “I’m going to give you space to run with this and just keep me updated” or “This one’s high-stakes, so let’s plan to check in daily.” Then stick with it!
Step 5: Motivating – another often forgotten element of the Delegation process, acknowledging your team members’ efforts and results so that they actually want to take on delegated work in the future.
This isn’t about false praise. It’s about noticing when people do good work and telling them.
- Be specific: Don’t just say “good job.” Say what was good about it: “You handled that customer really well—the way you stayed calm and found a solution was exactly right.”
- Give feedback promptly: Don’t wait for annual reviews. Recognise good work when it happens.
- Celebrate wins: When a delegated task goes well, acknowledge it to the team. People want to know their work matters.
- Learn from challenges together: When things don’t go perfectly, treat it as learning, not failure. “What would you do differently next time?” is more useful than “You should have done X.”
A common mistake is only giving feedback when things go wrong. People start to dread hearing from you, and your conversations will always start on the defensive.
Quick Tip: It’s not about avoiding feedback on mistakes, but it is about finding a balance and remembering to reinforce the good too. Try the 5:1 rule—give five pieces of positive, specific feedback for every one piece of corrective feedback.
But please don’t use the ‘sandwich’ approach – here’s what you did well, here’s your mistake and here’s something else good. All that does is devalue the praise, people are waiting for the ‘but’ and dismiss the positive feedback.
Getting Started
It’s not about delegating everything straight away – or indeed ever! Good managers use delegation as a tool to free up their schedules so they can focus on the really important tasks that move their team and its results forward.
A first step for all managers is to be ruthless about what they and only they should be doing – everything else is a candidate for delegation.
From that list, choose 3 tasks that someone else on the team could handle. These should be tasks that matter but won’t cause disasters if they need some adjustment.
Use the DREAM™ model to plan the delegations and talk them through with the selected team members. It’s going to feel like more work to begin with, but as they become more comfortable with the delegated tasks, the manager’s time will start freeing up. It’s only more work in the short term, longer term the benefits are enormous.
Follow the check-in schedule that’s been set for each tasks – be disciplined, don’t disappear but don’t hover either.
At the end of the task, take time to reflect – what worked and what didn’t, what would be better next time, where do you need to adjust?
Managers who keep practicing this structured approach will start to find:
- Their days change – instead of being buried in tasks, they have time to think, plan and actually manage. Getting through the To Do list actually feels achievable
- Their team grows – they take on more responsibility, solve problems themselves, volunteer for new challenges and become more self-sufficient. The manager spends less time answering simple questions and more time offering support & development.
- Their confidence builds – they start to feel like a ‘real’ manager, not just someone who’s drowning and trying to keep up. They trust their judgement more and are able to
- Their reputation improves – team results improve, morale and motivation increase, team members step up and contribute. Their teams become the places that people want to work.
The Real Secret
Management isn’t about having all the answers or doing everything yourself.
It’s about getting work done through other people, in a way that develops them and doesn’t destroy you.
Delegation isn’t a nice-to-have skill to learn eventually. It’s the foundation of everything else managers need to do.
The good news? It’s completely learnable. Managers don’t need natural talent or years of experience. They just need a framework (like DREAM™) and the willingness to practice.
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